My family are totally pathetic...

By all accounts my family are ok. They're not nearly as dysfunctional as some. Sure, my uncle has a drinking problem, their eldest child is an over achiever and their youngest is an under achiever, but overall there are families out there that are actually a lot worse. They've decided this year that travelling the 20 minutes to Toti, to spend Christmas day with their family (us), is too much effort. My uncle would rather sit in his lounge and drink himself into a coma instead of spending the afternoon in our flat, with us. Now bear in mind that I offered to cook a 3 course meal, for which they don't have to contribute a single thing. I am SO pissed off. Let them sit in their house and drink themselves into oblivion. UGH!